THE LOVE ZONE

1 John 4:16-19 ESV So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. (17) By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. (18) There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. (19) We love because he first loved us.

Friday, 19 April 2013

MONEY TALKS: Messi buys over noisy neighbour’s house

Lionel Messi has dealt with the problem of having annoying neighbours by simply buying their house, like a boss.

It’s not often we hear of Lionel Messi doing something extravagant with all his money, but it seems like he might have done just that by purchasing his neighbour’s house.

According to a report in Spanish paper El Mundo Deportivo, Messi is currently living in the Pedralbes area of Barcelona with his wife and son, where they bought an apartment a little over a year ago. However, they are only there as a temporary measure while their house in the Castelfedells neighbourhood is being renovated.

As a student of “the game” in years past I met a lot of fellow seekers who went on to become teachers. In fact, I’d say that a good percentage of the guys who learned well and actually succeeded with women have themselves turned around and become teachers, coaches or gurus. (It still happens much that way, which can be a problem, but that’s for another time.)

One of these former students now writing books and teaching seminars is Jeff Allen. His stories back in the day were wild and crazy, often involving karaoke, scatological humor and extreme drunkenness. But this week he reached the mainstream in an article for Time Out New York, wherein he coached journalist Connell Barrett on simple—and classic—tactics for getting the number.

TOUCHING STORY:Confessions Of A Married Woman

“Hi readers, i just want to share my true life story with you so that you can learn from it. We are human beings, we make mistakes every day but it left for you to learn from your mistakes.

“My name is ‘anonymous’ I wont mention where I come from for security reasons. I met this guy in 2001 when I was writing WAEC, his name is GuyA. We fell in love.

Different theorists have come up with different sets of relational needs, but they all overlap. Some people see them as leftover needs from childhood, others see them as normal needs we all have throughout all of our lives right to the point we die.CONTINUE READING.......

You’ve been dating your man for a few years and have been bombarded by the “when are you guys going to make it official?” question from your annoyingly nosy family and friends. You know yourself that he is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, and his actions and words are pointing in the same direction. So, what’s the hold up?

SEE REASON BELOW

You banged his friend

Everyone has a past. Apparently, yours involve a tryst with his friend, you wh*re. It doesn’t matter if it was 5 years ago, or 5 days ago – no man wants to be his buddy’s sloppy seconds – let alone wife one up.

It may seem unacceptable,bu t it is the untilted and untainted truth. These key points have beentested by time and experience:

(1) Women hate Men who are garrulous in nature. Any attempt to talk too much arouses a woman's contempt towards a man. It is believed that women do the "talks" while men do the "works." Nevertheless,however garrulous you are,there's a woman for you.

Ever wondered what it takes to catch a guy's attention? Here are some tricks to make him fall for you.

1. Dress well! There is nothing more unsatisfying then seeing a chubby girl squeezed into a pair of too skinny pants and a shirt that shows belly. It just isn't attractive. Start by finding styles for your certain frame or shape. Every woman is beautiful, but every woman can also dress horribly wrong!

You don’t always have to resort to pills to boost your libido. The following are nature’s gifts to you and your partner :

What Exactly Do Women Want?

What exactly do women want? I have asked myself this question numerous times and I have tried hard to figure it out. Truth be told, it might vary from woman to woman but really, we guys do not actually have a clue as to what women want. Even some of these women do not actually know what they want. Most women you meet tell you their ideal man should be tall,dark,handsome,rich and blah, blah,blah. At the end of the day they meet the man and at the end of the day something is still missing. They still have something to complain about.

I have come to realize (after various attempts) that having a relationship is hard work and requires patience. Every relationship has its ups and down. There is a thin line between staying in a relationship to work things out and being stupid. Here are some reasons I believe you should put an end to a relationship. I decided not to be biased towards any sex during the writing of this post.

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That’s a line from a song that keeps replaying in my head everyday.It is also a line that should follow a lot of the female folks especially the younger ones. Everyday I see them with different overly bright clothes and expensive bags and phones.
When I pass by I hear them say, “He is so rich. He takes me to exotic places everytime“. I shake my head and continue to walk on.
When will we ever learn? I can pen down a list of my friends that are married because of the money or because of the title or influence behind the name.
What happened to love?

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Ahhhhh……The signs! Wait signs? What signs? Are there signs? I hear you ask…… Oh, there are signs alright, but you need to be savvy enough. Think of a relationship as a business, you need to invest, maintain and communicate. If you’re not doing all three of these things or at least two out of three, the relationship suffers. FACT!

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Most of of us have been there. We’re all too familiar with that dreaded friend zone. The point where the person you’ve been secretly wanting forever and a day tells you “I look at you like a friend” or even worse “you’re like a brother to me” *hot tears*
It’s something no guy ever want to hear from a girl he desires as a girlfriend or as a babe he’s trying to set P with. Nothing makes you jam rock more than that dreaded friend zone. She likes hanging out with you, and wants to hang out all the time, but nothing more. Indirectly blocking your other runs in the process.

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So this has been a subject of discussion many a times when the matter of dating and marriage comes up with our dear Nigerian social group; She makes way more money than her boyfriend or husband.
Now when I’m saying she makes more money, I’m talking significantly more. Like $150k over $50k. A significant gap in financial power.

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How to find a GOOD man?
WARNING! This article contains highly valuable material on finding a ‘GOOD’ man. If you are not a ‘GOOD’ woman, don’t ruin it for the rest of us. I urge you, please do not read further. If you are a ‘GOOD’ woman, read on and enjoy J
The title almost suggests that there is a secret hidden place full of men in the world and if you’re ever so good, you might find yourself stumble upon such a place. Sadly, the closet place I can think of is a football match.

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Hi readers, in this post I am going to go over the top ten most dangerous mistakes men make and how to avoid them.
1. Being too nice and showing too much interest.
When a man meets a woman he is very interested in, he tends to become over accommodating and starts acting extra nice. He will do things like laugh at things that aren’t too funny. He will agree with everything she says. He will offer to help her in any way that he can. And he will generally display to her that he is willing to do whatever she asks of him in exchange for her to like him. This is a recipe for failure.

So! You have been faking it girl haven’t you? Truth is, that is quite normal. Fake it! Just saw you don’t hurt his feelings by making him assume you do not feel him intimately. That is quite understandable. There are millions of girls all around the world just like you who have been faking it successfully, and millions more who actually reach the heights but do not even notice that they did. OuccCh! How sad.

Chances are, she just might! Research studies show that 88% of women are more liable to cheat on their lover if oral stimulation of her inner most senses are not given ever so willingly, especially when the reverse is the case on her part.
So yes, for the sake of Head,she might just Cheat on you!
This is a very sensitive topic and women discuss it all the time.
Countless times i have heard men say how they are disgusted by the thought of going down on a woman with their tongue. Well, if you fall in this category of men, would it interest you to know that there are other men out there who are not disgusted at the thought? Many of whom would offer to do it freely?

The question for today.. How many sexual partners in a period of time is too much? For girls and guys alike. During a documentary filming in Angola, a young 21 year old girl reportedly said she started having sex at 19 and has had 16 sexual partners in 2 years alone!

I Hate Sex!

From Jumobi, Ilorin Nigeria

My first sexual encounter was with a fellow girl. No, i am not a Lesbian, contrary to what you might think as you read this. I was 14 years old, what did i know?
I let her kiss me. Then i let her fondle my breasts. I fondled hers too. I liked it.
Then as time went on, she began to say things like “I love you” “I miss you” “I can’t do without you” that was when i knew there was trouble. We stopped talking to each other.

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Don’t you hate that? You give a guy, the best years of your life or you’ve liked that guy for ages but yet he keeps choosing these tramps over you?
N.B not that I’m bitter about my ex’s new girlfriend or anything…..kmt
So what’s going on? What’s so good about her? What was it that he couldn’t or didn’t see in you? He most likely isn’t going to tell you why but I have seven reasons why he chose her and not you.

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Love, the golden word that binds all and heals all.
Love, just a bit of it would make the world a better place.
Love, that sweet poison which makes us do crazy meaningless things.
Ever seen a full grown man breakdown in public and shed oceans of tears, uncontrollably, without shame, bereft of remorse.
Have you ever lost the desire to eat, sleep, or even keep living over the loss(breakup) of a loved one?
Love, something so special, so divine, so
sanguine, damn near perfect.

The first rule of Bridal Makeup is “Keep it matte and simple”.
You really cannot do so much damage if you have this rule stuck in your head, engraved in your heart and stick by it on your Wedding day. The worst thing you can do to yourself as regards Makeup for your wedding is doing too much. The bad part? The difference between a beautiful translation of Makeup and a Disaster is just a little extra stroke of the brush! UuurgghH right?

In what can be described as the height of wickedness or extreme case of sexual perversion, a man has subjected a 13-year-old girl to a terrible show of his machismo by continuously having sex with her for two weeks.
The girl, Faith (surname withheld) is in primary six in a public school at Ajeromi-Ifelodun Local Government Area of Lagos State.

Life is of different categories By Folake Aina

One thing we all sometimes fail to realize about life is that there are always different levels. Whether we like it or not, people fall under different levels or categories. There will always be the rich, and there will always be the poor. Somehow, you just know what level you belong to.

There are some things that are relevant to all of us. I really want all the youth to pay attention, because I would like you to be like trees firmly planted by streams of water which yields its fruit in its season. Your leaves must never wither. You must all end up well married and successful in life. It is the knowledge you have of certain things, and the exposure to them that usually helps one to excel in life.

A proper makeup makes a person moreglamorous and attractive, bad makeup can ruin your beauty. Here are some makeup tips, so that next time you would be more conscious when you want to makeup.

Of late, I have become very concerned about what I take in. It is so easy to become careless about food and drinks, yet health and disease is directly connected with what we take in by way of food and drink.
A couple of weeks back, I published a list of foods that promote good health, I hope you found that useful and are , stocking up on them. Today, in working for your healthy, I have complied a variety of tips, including juices you can make, rather than drink empty soft drinks, which promotes bloating and ill health. Prevention is better than cure
Here are some healthy tip for your smartness & physical fitness.

Prior to the wedding of Kate Middleton and Prince Williams , the head piece known as facinator was not a must have trend. However, the Allure team brought the fascinator to national limelight, when we featured it at the Allure Style Icons Award, which took place at The Mornach at ABC , Victoria Island, Lagos.
Little did we know that it would be the head piece of choice at the Royal wedding of Prince Williams a lovely bride.

If your skin is clean, smooth and even congrats! You are a winner! But not everyone is born with perfect skin. You may have dark areas,, facial hair, acne scars , wrinkles and other bumps in your face, evidence that you need to take steps to care for your skin. What you should do to regenerate your skin

You must have heard that establishing and sticking with a great skin care regimen is essential for good skin. Practicing great skin care habits can help you protect your skin from harmful environmental factors, slow the skin aging process and can keep blemishes and other unsightly skin problems at bay.
There are three compulsory steps that you must take to achieve radiant skin that will see you through old age. They are, cleansing, toning and moisturizing; morning and evening.
However, many women find the idea of creating a skin routine a little overwhelming and most often think they don’t have time to devote to the challenging task. The good news is, there are many easy skin care tips you can do every day, without spending a lot of time on your facial area.
Below, I have compiled the three quick steps

There is an alarming increase in the rate at which people are diagnosed with cancer these days. In the last one week, I have heard at least five cases of people I know. It is scary. Below, I have compiled a list of some food items that promotes good health and some that can trigger off cancer

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  In a country where a man’s marriageability hinges on whether he owns an apartment, and mistresses act as a status symbol for the rich and powerful, it is not surprising that Chinese have become enchanted by a story of love at its purest and most humble. How many people in contemporary China—or anywhere else—would give up everything they have to be with the one they love? More than 50 year ago, Xu Chaoqing (徐朝清) and Liu Guojiang (刘国江) chose exactly that.

Love is a promise; love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

No, I don’t think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That’s what’s wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.

Love is blind. It will take over your mind. What you think is love, is truly not. You need to elevate your mind.

When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It’s like death.

The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.

Love is an emotion experienced by the many and enjoyed by the few.

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle
"Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable." –Wizard of Oz
"Love cures people, both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."– Dr. Karl Menninger
"Your heart is free, have the courage to follow it." – Braveheart
"Better to have lost and loved than never to have loved at all."– Hemingway

A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love. ~ Max Muller

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. ~ Aristotle

Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye. ~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives. ~ C. S. Lewis

25 relationship tips.

What's the key to successful relationships? Here, Susan Quilliam reveals the simple things you need to know to deepen your partnership and make your relationship work
1. Without quality time, your relationship will not survive. Carve out at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when you the two of you spend time exclusively together.
2. You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.

Fairy-tale love is hard to find—here are some tips for keeping your relationship healthy and happy.

One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our relationship work?" The answers are complicated, varied, and, after a while, can start to sound like muddled platitudes. But these commonplace sayings get repeated because they work. With this in mind, we pulled together 12 cliches that, in fact, reveal simple, tried-and-true advice for having a healthy, happy relationship. Read on and let us know what you think:

Every time you think that you’re lonely in this world, just remember there’s one person out there who’s perfect for you, even if the person is a million miles away, you will always somehow find each other. A person doesn’t have to be perfect to be exactly what you need. They just need to have a genuine heart that knows how to love. So you should never look for someone perfect. Rather, you should look for someone who can love you perfectly. Here’s what you can do for yourself to find love.

A good friend is not just someone who is always there for you. It’s someone who understands you a bit more than you understand yourself. A good friend is someone who doesn’t force you to be someone you are not. A good friend loves you for you are. You don’t just need a good friend, but it’s a requirement for a good and happy life. Read Is Friendship Really Important for Your Life?

True love is worth waiting for even if it takes a lifetime. Then in return a lifetime of love will be waiting for you. But true love is rare. Only some lucky people have been able to find true love in their life. The love stories here are written by people who realized the value of true love. The love stories here really touches some reality in this material world. If while reading it, some of your precious tears come out, this mean, you too, you are a true lover.

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