You’ve been
dating your man for a few years and have been bombarded by the “when are
you guys going to make it official?” question from your annoyingly nosy
family and friends. You know yourself that he is the one you want to
spend the rest of your life with, and his actions and words are pointing
in the same direction. So, what’s the hold up?
SEE REASON BELOW
You banged his friend
Everyone has a
past. Apparently, yours involve a tryst with his friend, you wh*re. It
doesn’t matter if it was 5 years ago, or 5 days ago – no man wants to be
his buddy’s sloppy seconds – let alone wife one up.
You’re too dependent
Men want to be
needed, but he doesn’t want to be your be all and end all. While he will
do anything to make you happy, he doesn’t want to be the only source of
your happiness. Get your sh*t together.
You’re too nosy
Being curious
about each other is natural – hacking into his email account and
Facebook is not. If you spend all your spare time watching and
monitoring his every move on Facebook or Twitter, trying to decipher the
hidden meaning behind every post and tweet, then you’re on the cusp of
crazy. Give him some space – there’s a fine line between curiosity and
stalker.
He’s not serious about you
For him, there
are plenty more fish in the sea and he’s not sold on the fact that
you’re the fish he wants to lure. Which may mean…
You’re his side piece
You’ve been with
this guy for how long and yet you have yet to meet anyone in his family?
There’s a red flag right there. If he’s never around for holidays and
shows up at your doorstep at erratic times, he’s not going to marry you
because he probably already has a wife.
You’re more beauty than brains –
Having a ditzy,
hot girlfriend is one thing – having a bimbo wife who he is unable to
bring to any event where conversation is required is another. When a man
is ready to commit, he is just as interested in what you bring to the
table as he is in your external appearance. If all you bring to the
table is a pretty face, a banging body and the ability to suck golf
balls through a straw, the lack of anything deeper will limit his
pursuit of you to the surface level.
You don’t possess ‘wifely’ qualities
You don’t cook,
you don’t clean, you’re terrible with kids and you love to spend money –
his money. One of the key reasons that men don’t want to get married
is due to the financial aspects — he doesn’t want to go broke trying to
keep you, a maid and a chef. Why would he marry you if you’re so
useless?
You already act like this wife
Why buy the cow
when you can get the milk for free? You’re already banging him
regularly, playing house, acting like his wife – what man in their right
mind would run to get a marriage license when you’re already his bitch?
He’s commitment phobic
Maybe he comes
from a broken family, or perhaps he grew up in an environment that
places no importance on marriage. If he says to you that he doesn’t
believe in marriage, don’t think you’re the magical girl who can change
his mind.
It’s too soon
We all know women
mature faster than men – so while you may have developed the qualities
that make you ready for marriage within a year, it make take 2 or 3
years for him. Ultimately, you’re going to have to take the gamble and
decide if he’s worth the wait.
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